There has been a time in my life that I believed that nothing came easy and you had to struggle to reach your goals. Then the light bulb went off and I started seeing things differently.
When I started college I choose psychology as my major and was struggling to keep my grades up. I started to doubt myself and wondered if school was right for me. Luckily I just received a “A” in my international business class and everything became clear. I quickly changed my major and made Dean’s list. It was that easy.
Dating was another struggle I found myself putting too much energy in the wrong men. I recall my friend saying to me that love doesn’t hurt. When I started to date my husband it was easy and I finally understood what my friend meant. Love should not be a struggle and when it’s right it feels wonderful.
Be careful not to put your energy into something that doesn’t bring you happiness. Negative emotions are good indicators that it’s time to re evaluate the situation and make a change. Whether these emotions are towards a relationship, work or yourself pay attention to them. But don’t over analysis your thoughts take note of what your mind is telling you, find a solution and move on. Most importantly listen to your heart for it always holds the truth.
Life can be difficult but it doesn’t have to be. Don’t live inside your own head of excuses. When you find what’s right for you – you will achieve your goals effortlessly.