It’s time to make that change that you have been thinking about.  You deserve happiness  in your life, not hurt and pain.  It’s time to listen to that little voice inside your heart telling you it’s time to let go of the pain, the people in your life that are toxic and any old habits that don’t work for you anymore.  Because the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.

Life gets busy and though we may not be happy with certain aspects of our life we continue on.  Sometimes we make the excuse that we don’t have time to sit still and think about what it is that is bothering us.  But then in the middle of the night you are awaken from a deep sleep and that little voice is yelling at you “I am not happy – we need a change – something is not right.”

Are you strong enough to listen and follow your intuition?  I believe we have all the answers but we may not want to listen and make the necessary changes we need.  Either because we are scared, stuck, weak, or stubborn.  But deep down inside we know what has to be done to live a quality life.

It’s not easy getting rid of things that don’t work for us anymore because we have been doing it for so long that some of us don’t even notice how we are self sabotaging ourselves.  Life is meant to be lived in peace but we often may decisions that take away away the calm and brings on a storm of emotions and disappointments.

The good news is it’s not too late – you can still make the changes you need to live the life that you want.  As long as you are still living their is nothing you can’t change.  Humans are not perfect but we are part of the divine.  So we are much stronger that we give ourselves credit for.  We live under the law of grace our creator has forgiven us for our sins.  It’s time to forgive yourself and get rid of anything that is stopping you from enjoying life and living in peace.



“You’re gonna be happy”, said life, “but first I’ll make you strong”.

We have all been knocked down in life.   In order to be strong you have to endure heartache, loss and failure.  Once you live through the pain and disappointment you realize you are a survivor.   The definition of survivor is a person who copes well with difficulty in their life.

I have had my fair share of difficulties and failures which I’m grateful for. It means I’m living life and taking risks.  Most of these failures became blessings.  Because the lessons I learned were extremely valuable.  I would not be a successful woman, wife or mother if I didn’t go through the heartaches and headaches of life.

Don’t be afraid to express yourself, be vulnerable and reach for the stars.  Even if things don’t work out it will shape you and make you stronger.   Stronger to love, and live life to its fullest.

Readers do you agree that life difficulties have made you a stronger person?  Please share your comments.  So those who are hurting right now will learn that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  And nothing worth having comes easy.